September 24, 2026

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Eric McNeil on Building Businesses Through Relationships, Not Transactions

Surety underwriters put a price on a builder’s record before a tower reaches its first slab, which is the closest thing construction has to a number for trust.

A performance bond commits a surety company to finish the work if the contractor does not. The premium is quoted as a percentage of the contract amount, commonly about one to three percent, and where a firm falls inside that band is decided by underwriting rather than negotiation. A builder with a long record of finishing pays at the bottom of the range. A builder without one pays more, or cannot get a bond written at all.

Strip out the language and that is an insurance market putting a number on reputation, revised each time a company finishes a building or fails to. It makes the phrase relationships rather than transactions less sentimental than it usually sounds, and worth testing rather than repeating.

Eric McNeil works alongside luxury developers across the corridor running from Miami through Boca Raton to Palm Beach while maintaining relationships across professional sports, entertainment, business and private capital. Through McNeilX, those relationships come together around strategic partnerships and select real estate opportunities. His approach is built on the idea that long-term credibility and repeat relationships can matter more than maximizing the value of any single transaction.

Why the second deal changes the first

The mechanism is not character, and treating it as character is the fastest way to misapply it. Someone deciding how hard to push in a negotiation weighs what they gain now against what it costs later, and later only exists if there is a later. In a market with an unlimited supply of fresh counterparties the cost never arrives. Where a limited number of firms build everything above a certain price point across three counties, it arrives quickly.

So the useful question about a counterparty is narrower than whether they can be trusted. It is whether they expect to need the other side of the table again, and how soon. Two people can behave identically in a first meeting and diverge completely when something goes wrong, and what separates them is usually the shape of their next eighteen months.

Reputation can influence how counterparties evaluate future relationships, particularly in markets where the same developers, advisers and other participants work together repeatedly. That does not eliminate the need to negotiate individual transactions on their own merits, but it can make long-term credibility relevant beyond a single deal.

The document is what protects the relationship

A common misreading of relationship-driven business is that trust reduces the need for paperwork. In construction the reverse holds. Take a guaranteed maximum price arrangement, the structure the American Institute of Architects writes its A102 and A133 forms for. The owner pays the cost of the work plus a fee, subject to a cap. If reimbursable costs run above the cap and the overrun is not covered by an approved change, the contractor carries it. Savings below the cap go wherever the contract says they go. A contingency sits inside the number for work not fully drawn when the price is fixed.

Each of those terms decides who absorbs a cost that has not happened yet, and costs move. Producer prices for steel mill products rose 22.5 percent in the year to July 2026, and aluminium mill shapes 40.5 percent, according to an Associated General Contractors analysis of federal data released on 17 August 2026. A metals move of that size against a fixed cap does not get settled by goodwill. It gets settled by whether the contingency was defined in advance and whether the change order provision says what it needs to say.

McNeil’s view is that long-term relationships do not reduce the importance of clear documentation. When expectations, responsibilities and potential changes are addressed clearly from the outset, the parties are less likely to turn a commercial disagreement into a dispute about trust or intent.

Failure one: the counterparty with no next deal

Because the model runs on a future, it fails wherever the future stops. The clearest version is a principal in the process of selling his firm. Whatever he agrees to costs him nothing once the sale closes, and the reputational bond that made him predictable across five previous transactions is worth less on the sixth than on the second. The same holds for a sponsor winding down in the corridor, and for a sales director in a final month before joining a competing tower.

None of that requires bad faith. The incentive quietly doing the work simply stops doing it, usually without announcement. What can be observed is whether a person expects to be in the same market in three years. A firm taking sites, hiring and keeping the same architect across projects behaves like a repeat player. A firm consolidating and going quiet may not. Neither is proof, and both change how much weight an understanding should carry against a clause.

Failure two: when everybody’s future shrinks at once

The second failure is a market condition. When volume falls, the expected number of future deals falls for every participant at once, and the discipline repeat dealing enforces weakens at the moment it would be most useful. A relationship that survived four good years gets asked to do its hardest work in the year when neither side is sure there is a fifth.

Florida’s construction lien law is written on that assumption. A subcontractor or supplier not in privity with the owner has to serve a notice to owner before beginning to furnish labour or materials, or within 45 days of beginning, and in any event before the owner disburses final payment following the contractor’s affidavit. Failure to serve it in time is a complete defence to the lien. The notice exists because payment in a difficult year runs on documents rather than on the strength of a working relationship.

Failure three: the relationship is with a person, and so is the licence

The third failure is the most ordinary. A relationship attaches to an individual while the contract attaches to a company, and individuals leave. Florida makes the distinction unusually literal. Under section 489.119 of the Florida Statutes, a construction business organisation operates on the certification or registration of a qualifying agent, who is a person. When that person’s affiliation with the company ends, the business must notify the department and has 60 days to employ another qualifying agent, and it may not engage in contracting until it does, beyond a temporary authorisation to proceed with contracts already awarded or bid. A company’s ability to build in the state is held in the name of a human being who is free to resign.

The commercial versions are gentler and far more frequent. A sales director who understood a buyer’s timing takes a job three blocks north. An outside capital partner recapitalises a sponsor and the people deciding now sit in another city. Nothing improper has happened, and a relationship that took years is gone in a fortnight. The answer is dull: know more than one person inside each firm, and keep the substance of what was agreed in a form that survives whoever agreed it.

Eric McNeil
Eric McNeil. Image supplied by Eric McNeil.

What is left after the objections

Put the three failures together and the model narrows into something more defensible. Relationships do not reduce risk, but they can provide context that is difficult to develop without repeated participation in the same market. Familiarity with developers, prior projects, execution history and local market dynamics can inform how an opportunity is evaluated, while broader construction, financing and market risks still have to be assessed independently.

McNeil’s approach reflects that narrower view. Through McNeilX, his relationship-driven strategy is built around working repeatedly with developers and other market participants while evaluating each opportunity independently. Long-term relationships may create access and familiarity, but they do not replace underwriting, clear documentation or the involvement of the appropriate legal, financial and other professional advisers.

For McNeil, the value of a relationship is ultimately measured over time. Credibility, consistent execution and clear expectations can create opportunities to work together again, which is why his focus remains on building strategic partnerships rather than treating each transaction as an isolated event.

This article is for informational purposes only. It is not an offer to sell or a solicitation of an offer to buy any security, and it is not investment, financial, legal or tax advice. Real estate and private market investments carry risk, including loss of principal, and nothing described here is a prediction of future results. Readers should consult their own licensed advisers before making any financial decision.